During a recent holiday I discovered John Frieda´s Smooth sailing detangling conditioner(Beach Blonde series),and it is definately true to its´name!The best detangler I´ve ever used.
After spending a whole day on the beach,snorkling etc.my hair was full of tangles,although I had braided and conditioned it before going out.And fine,41 inch length hair does get horrible tangles!But after using this conditioner my hair was soft as can be,the tangles combed out so easily,I escaped without any splits or loosing lots of hair :P
I would not use it every day though,it is a heavy conditioner(lots of cones)and I suspect it will build up quickly-but as an emergency-treatment it´s great.

I agree about not using it every day, if your hair is too soft it slips out of a lot of updos! Especially annoying for hot days!

Exactly...and my hair is already slippery by nature-you can imagine how much more so it was after using this conditioner! ::)

I need that product badly!  Where can I find the John Frieda Smooth Sailing Detangler?

I´ve bought mine on holiday(Dubai)but it´s also available on www.drugstore.com
I´m not sure if it´s also available in the shops!
Hope that helps :D