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Short Hair and teh Struggle for Womanhood (Read 100175 times)
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Reply #60 - Sep 2nd, 2005 at 4:57am
 
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My 2 cents worth,
being in the hair industry for 10 years now, I think it has more to do with time, and the physical ability to maintain the hair. Most of my older clients 50 + have jobs that don't allow them to do all they need to do to maintain long hair and the styles that go with it, plus if it is very long , bra strap and below they find it a bother. they also are dealing with medical issues, that don't give them the range of motion, they used to have. For most cutting it short is just easier and less time consumming, and cost less to care for .. IE shampoos, conditioners .....


I had an a-line bob for about 12 years, and it was a breeze to take care of.  In fact, I never even had to comb it because it's straight, and combing would just make it flat.

When I decided to grow my hair, the hardest time I had was going from shoulder to BSL.  That was because I couldn't put my hair back and hair would fall in my way like if I bent over.  That length, even with layers, was just not a style I was happy with - I did not look unique, I looked like everyone trendy.

Now that my hair is waist length, I find I have MORE styling options (that don't require products) that do not take long to do.  For example, in the 80's, it took me a half an hour to style my hair.  Now, I can put up most buns or twist in under 2 minutes.  Also, if I chose to leave it down, it's long enough that it stays behind my shoulders and doesn't fall in my way.

So I guess what I'm trying to say is, for me - super short or super long works best. 

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Reply #61 - Sep 3rd, 2005 at 12:21am
 
I think my hair is more mangable long. I hadit short once when I was a child and had to blow dry/style it. Now  just comb throught and put some condiotioner on and make a braid or bun. This is quicker.
Also about the older folks. People are living artificlalliy long now. At one time 20 years was past middle aged.
There is good and bad in this. Yes it's nice to live along life, but wonce one gets past seventy its sually downh hill and teh quality of life isn't good(usually). We are living ina nation of unhelathy people...it's right in our faces. Every other commercial I see is a pill comercial. Oh youre afraid of flying? Take a pill!. Cna't sleep right? Take a pill! What happened to au naturel? There are very veyr powerdful natrural alterntaives. Well, to gte to the point, olde rpeople wya back when were stronger so they could dela with longer hair. Our great greta granmothers ar epeople to admire...many women these days talk about how far and storn woman are now...psshh. Poeple are so materialistc (what of intellect?) Anyways, to finish this rambling gobbly gook, I think that perhaps the reaosn why older folks cant handle the long hair style sis becaue they have lived artificailly long. And forgive em I knwo one two veyr elderly poeple for whom it was worth living that long (and they got there naturally!). But I feel sorry for so many people who take pills for everything. Its really scary and quite sad how we have a nation of sick people who think pills are these wonderful magical cure alls.  People have to eat better and take herbs and ple(unless you have a terrible  disease liek cancer or a serious heart problem) lay back on the medication and try soem naturla alterntaives. The drug companies don't want you to know about them. Money Money Money.I knwo alot of people know this, but no ones doing anythign to combat it Sad.
Wow this went off from the hair subject...
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Reply #62 - Sep 3rd, 2005 at 3:40am
 
That is such an excellent post Sara - I don't totally agree with everything but you really make good points.

I do take pills - wish I didn't have to but the alternative is much worse.  There is an artificiality to it though and living the best natural way is almost impossible for most of us.

Living in today's world is not an easy thing but it would be just as artificial to try to put ourselves back to a different existance, for most of us anyway, some people do actually go all out and do it.

For most of us it's all we can do to get it right in whatever circumstance we find ourselves in...g
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Reply #63 - Sep 3rd, 2005 at 1:23pm
 
I certainly sympathize with your thoughts, Sara.  Smiley

I think that medicalization has gone wrong in many ways- there are side effects in what generally is relieving of suffering. People are afraid of death, though they don't know whether it's a good or a bad thing. Symptoms of illnesses are often treated instead of their causes like bad nutrition and living in a stressful society.
   We live in an age, where everything new is worshipped and embraced just for novelty's sake, without thinking deeper, whether the new item will actually contribute in making us happier persons. We are told, that we should appreciate things that make our daily tasks easier and faster and few see that the extra time is spent in doing things that can be often described as wasting life.
Materia is worshipped, though the one thing that almost all thinkers through ages have agreed that happiness lies in a simple life.
    A philosopher as I am, it didn't take me too many years to become convinced that I should try to simplify my life. Guess what? Every little change I have made to simpler direction has made my life a little happier. Baking the bread I eat...my coworker asked, don't I have anything else to do. I replied to her what I realized right then: that I can't imagine doing anything better than actively making myself and my loved one happy.
Growing my hair long instead of short and fried. Embracing its natural beauty instead of always trying to "fix" its supposed problems. Stopping trying to follow fashion and adopting a simpler way of dressing myself. Now I'm at the point where I'm hoping to take some bigger steps like moving to countryside into a home that has less fanciness but more quality. I'm confident, that when unnecessary crap goes from my life, there will be room for more happiness and deep thought.
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Reply #64 - Sep 4th, 2005 at 1:15am
 
Thank you Gabi. You are right , not everyone wants to go all out. However, I do think that Galdariel si right. Small things like baking your own bread are very rewarding. Even making your own dinner from scratch. I'm not saying we hsould all go funky and stop showeing for 10 months, but to add some more simple thinsg to our life. We just made one good choice in this by deciding to grow our hair long and maintain it.
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Reply #65 - Sep 4th, 2005 at 5:36am
 
Again, all very good points (note to self, make bread  Cheesy, I love homemade bread, well, at least tortillas).

But also,  I have to state again that I felt that wearing an almost buzz cut for ten years was also very simplifying and pleasurable - not to mention, you wouldn't believe how nice it feels  Grin...g
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Reply #66 - Sep 4th, 2005 at 7:57am
 
I agree with you, gabi. I too wore very short cut (shaved for the summer, letting grow a bit in winter) for years, and it was very easy and carefree. Going simple doesn't always mean going old-fashioned.
    One aspect I've enjoyed much so far is, that I've learned new skills. Taking each step on a road towards simpler life means learning new skills. And that, in turn has made me more self confident. On the other hand, this need to learn at every turn means also, that it's important to take small enough steps so that simplifying doesn't become a burden instead of a way to making life happier.
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Reply #67 - Sep 4th, 2005 at 1:00pm
 
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But also,  I have to state again that I felt that wearing an almost buzz cut for ten years was also very simplifying and pleasurable - not to mention, you wouldn't believe how nice it feels  Grin...g


I love to pet shaved heads.  Luckily I get lots of opportunities with hubby and friends (men and women). 
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Reply #68 - Sep 4th, 2005 at 10:31pm
 
I'm a bald head petter too!!!  Hubbies head is best right after a shave!! Grin
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Reply #69 - Sep 6th, 2005 at 12:03am
 
LOL! When I see bald heads, I feel like shining them. O_O
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Reply #70 - Sep 7th, 2005 at 6:20am
 
Well, I have to agree to some point. (away from the hair)
Artificially prolonging life: this is a very delicate subject. I always ask my physician for a herbal alternative if I have to take medication. There are several meds my hubby is on. He has no choice in this matter. He has to take the meds the doctor prescribse. Or worse things will happen to him.
I am totally against keeping people alive thru machines. It is very important in our days to have an updated living will.

I am very glad and thankful that thanks to our modern medicine people don't have to die or suffer anymore - unlike maybe 50 or 100 years earlier.

And I am also all for remembering the simpler life. I make our bread (sometimes), have my herb garden, veggie garden and purchase - if  possible - milk and meat right at the farmer's house. We have 2 cherry trees, a plum tree, peach tree, and a pear tree.  I  like experimenting with all that fruit and  make my own gelee.

Back in the day, without a washmachine and a dryer, that's all what one did ALL day LONG - washing cloth. Nowadays one has machines for all that. Which frees up time for other things one can do. .....This is like that with a bunch of machines....at the end it equals STRESS. Taking steps back in the opposite direction is a good thing. Relax and remember how much satisfaction you can get out of "making" something yourself.
And yes, like Galadriel pointed out, it is a learning process. One step at a time. And stop whenever you have reached the point which is comfortable for you. (Gabi)   Smiley
Besides that,  I do miss my hubbies total short Army hair. He's letting it grow now ???? and I cannot get used to it.  8)
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Reply #71 - Sep 7th, 2005 at 6:28am
 
I think especially with some of the natural and not so natural disasters we've seen it is certainly prudent to think about at least being able to get things down to a minimum.

Certainly being dependant on medicines is a frightening thing.  Basic sanitation, food and water are needs no one can get away from.

It's a thin balance to take advantage of what can make life more pleasant without loosing the ability to par down to essentials ...g
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Reply #72 - Sep 7th, 2005 at 7:44am
 
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Reply #73 - Sep 7th, 2005 at 11:33am
 
There's so much philosophical debate going on, whether or not it is right to try to prolong life artificially. One problem is in defining the "artificial". Another is a deeper philosophical question about value of life vs. value of quality of life. I am among those who think that artificial prolonging of life can be a very bad thing. But, medical profession has for millenia tried to prolong life and now that they finally have effective means of doing, they go for it. Otherwise they would have to question the whole ethics that supports western medical practice.

What gabi said! It also seems, that our want of luxury and comfort is quite stable. If we live very simply, we get satisfaction from relatively simple things. But if we surround ourselves with many comforts and luxuries, it's more difficult to achieve satisfaction. We become spoiled.
This reasoning is another reason why I wish to go simpler- I may have long decades of life ahead of me, and I wish to preserve my ability to get delighted and enjoyment from small things of life.

I miss just one aspect in super short hair- it felt like my scalp was covered in velvet. ^^

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Reply #74 - Sep 7th, 2005 at 11:22pm
 
There is so much debate on all the issues around the medical advances and prolongation of life in the medical community.  Be assured most of the medical community wrestles with those issues on a daily basis, and takes them very seriously.  I really don't want to get into my thoughts here, I like to leave work at work when I'm here. 
One thing to remember though is that, at least in the USA, the people with the final say on aggressive treatment (or any treatment) are the patient and/or their families, not the doctors or nurses.
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