Hmmm....the cool thing about having fine, wispy hair is that you can oil the ends to make them stick out of funky or messy styles.
    You might experiment just pinning sections here and there with bobby pins to get whatever look you want. One of my favourite styles to do when my hair was shorter was to make a low ponytail (not using any hairties or anything), twisting it, then pinning it up with 2 bobby pins crossed over each other in the shape of an X. The ends fell down or stuck out however they wanted, and I oiled them so they looked extra wispy & spiky.

The idea for this came from decades ago when my mother would twist & pin my hair up before a bath if I wasn't going to wash it. Kinda the same way you would put it up before putting a shower cap on, if that makes any sense.

Another thing you could try is making a simple bun and pinning it into place. If the ends are sticking out all over the place, that's ok. Just oil them and make it look intentional.

You'll have to forgive me if these styles don't work for you. I don't remember exactly how long your hair is.