Help!  I need to find a long hair salon in either the Fayetteville, NC or the Raleigh-Durham/Chapel Hill area.  I went to a wonderful day spa in Fayetteville, for a trim, but as open to my suggestions as the girl was, she still didn't quite treat my hair as gently as I thought she should.  Maybe it's me just being paranoid, but...

I'd feel much better having my quite infrequent trims being taken care of by someone who understands my goals, and why I tell her (or him) don't pull on my hair when you're combing it out, no 'cones, don't blowdry, etc!  

Thanks for any help anyone can give me.