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Oct 15th, 2005 at 12:52am
 
I returned from my trip a while ago, and it went so wonderfully, but I needed some me-time before getting back into the swing of normal life again. For those of you who wanted details here's how it went:
(and for the record, when I say Polar, I mean my dad. It's his nickname.)
I apologise for the unbelievable length.


   I suppose everyone is wondering how my trip to visit with Darryl went. In short, it was probably the best time of my life. The visit was for two weeks, from the ninth to the twenty-third. I didn't get much sleep at all before I left, I woke up about twenty after one in the morning and just couldn't get back to sleep. I gave up on even trying and got out of bed about half past two figuring I should at least make that time useful. So I finished up packing, double checking to make sure I had everything I'd need with me and rushed out the door with polar soon after. We had to stop by my friend Kat's on the way because I'd left my wooden comb with her and couldn't leave without it. I guess being out so early was why the roads were so empty, but the lights made up for it by all deciding to go red on us.
    We got to the airport, and I ended up having to check one of my bags. I had gone out of my way to make everything carry-on size for the flights and I had to check one anyway. Oh well. After getting through the bag check and security I sat at the gate waiting for the plane to start boarding. I was sitting next to an older lady while waiting, and she talked to me about her pets and helped me get my hair up until they called for our flight. My first plane didn't leave until six, so it was still pretty dark outside until a bit before take off. They let us on the plane, I had a window seat(just like all my flights for this trip) so I was watching the sun coming up while we were taking off.
   The first flight itself was pretty uneventful. The plane was rather small, and so my larger carry on had been checked for this flight as a plane-side claim. Once I got to Memphis and got my other bag it was pretty simple to figure out where I was going. That airport didn't seem too big, or maybe I was just lucky enough that everything I needed was close together. I called up my mom, and tried calling Polar but it didn't go through, so I had my mom let him know everything was alright.After a while they started boarding my next flight, the one to  Minneapolis. This flight seemed even shorter than the first one had, and the airport we landed in seemed much bigger. I had to ask directions to my next gate and make run, well, make a speedwalk to it. There was a lot more walking there than I had expected. I hauled my bags down one huge hallway afteranother, catching my breath on the moving belts and then going again. I finally made it to some doors and had to wait a few minutes for a little train which took me to yet another set of hallways, and finally, to my gate.
    So, I sat there a moment, checked to make sure that I had my tickets and little envelope that had my id and birth certificate in it tucked away in my purse. Having a few minutes I called polar again, this time it went through so I talked to him for a few minutes and then called my mom again. So, now all there was to do was to wait. I sat for a few minutes, pulled out my mirror, checked my reflection, decided I looked terrible, put it away, sat for a few minutes, took it out again, put it away again, went through the address book on my cell phone, looked through the ring tones, turned my phone off, put it away, checked my mirror again, put that away, took my phone out again, and so on with the nervous wasting of time until they called for boarding. By that time I was very tired and getting really excited. Just one more flight and I'd be there. I'd be in Saskatoon with Darryl. For two whole weeks. My row was called for seating so I got up, showed my id, birth certificate, tickets and went to get on the plane. I sat next to some lady, whose face I'm sure I would remember had I been paying attention to anything but my tickets, camera, and mirror(not in that order).
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This last flight seemed to take forever. It seemed like all afternoon, all day, hours upon hours, but I'm sure in reality it wasn't really all that long a time. I sat down and waited for the plane to take off. I fidgeted with my shoes a bit, played with my necklace, looked out the window, then looked in the mirror again. Last flight. Unbelievable. After what seemed like an hour they finally took off, rising up above the city. I tried to relax a bit, I managed to listen to one song all the way through on my cd player. Checked my mirror again, turned the cd player back on and shuffled through the rest of the songs in a matter of minutes. After a while they came by offering drinks and snacks, so I got some food. I wasn't hungry of course, but I got some anyway. It was a trail mix, different kinds of nuts and the occasional raisin. I ate two raisins, then set the bag aside. Checked my mirror again and this time decided I needed lip gloss, so I put some on and put the mirror away. I took it out again a few minutes later. The lady sitting next to me asked me if I was alright. I said I was fine, just nervous. I looked out the window again, watching the clouds and the roads that looked like sewing thread from so far away. Everything went by so slowly. I checked the mirror again. Then looked at my watch. I leaned back, closed my eyes, and dozed off a bit. I woke up three and a half minutes later. I finger-combed my hair, re-did my make up, checked my mirror about five hundred more times and about had a heart attack when they finally landed the plane.
    We sat at the gate for a minute while I fidgeted and waited and after a while people started standing up, so I did too. Somone helped me get my bag out of the overhead and I started down the little hall, wondering if I'd be able to see him from the doorway when I got to it. I couldn't. There were a couple of lines for customs, so I picked one and stood there. I set my bags down, the weight on one was starting to bother my shoulder a bit and I was getting really tired so I nudged it along with my foot as the line moved. Soon it was my turn, the man at customs asked me a few questions, why are you visiting, who are you staying with, how long will you be staying. I answered, probably sounding really shaky and tired, showed my birth certificate, my id, my tickets, and he told me to go wait in a small room. Two other people were there, we all just sat. Nobody really said a word. One guy was called back into a small office and after a few minutes they let him go. I waited, listening to everyone else walk by, leave, kept an eye on my watch as the minutes passed. I wondered if Darryl was here yet, and if so then when I would see him.
    As it stretched into a half an hour I wondered if they'd maybe let him wait with me at least. After a while someone came back and asked my name, said someone was waiting for me, then told me to stay where I was and keep waiting. Finally the other guy waiting with me was called, taken into that little office and talked to. The lady working there asked him questions and he answered. She repeated the questions, said they were important, and he answered again. He had a DUI in the past five years, he couldn't remember the exact date and so she wouldn't let him pass. I could hear them talking, and i waited, checked my mirror again, checked my watch, wondered if Darryl or Polar had tried calling my cellphone(it was off). After a while longer the guy walked out, not on his way to finish his trip, and I was called back. She asked me the same questions that the man had earlier and I answered. She kept nodding, writing things down and I kept wondering if they'd seen something wrong with me. I was starting to get nervous. After more questions, more nodding, and more writing things down she finally told me to take my bags to a counter down the hall so I did.
    I stood there waiting for a few minutes until she and the man from earlier showed up. They asked me the same questions again, this time as they went through my bags, my clothes, my purse, my wallet, my bath stuff, my cd's and books. Repeating the same things and same questions that they had earlier. After a while they crammed everything back into my bags and zipped them shut, and told me I could leave. I was so glad just to know I was getting out of there. I'd been up since before two that morning and I was tired, sleepy, worn out. I didn't want to stay here in the airport anymore. So, shaking a bit I picked up my bags, piled them together, and she showed me the way out. I stumbled through a little gateway and there Darryl was with his mom. In a complete lack of grace I kind of dropped my bags and went to hug him, almost falling over in the process. It was just so good to see him. Finally, I was here. Unbelievable. I was in his arms. Unbelievable.
   He helped me get my bags and kept asking me if I was okay, mentioning I got held up in line behind some woman that had tried to bring in seaweed but was married to a pilot and should have known better. We left the airport, walking outside there was like walking into our fall weather here, got to his car and left for home. We got there and I got to meet the dog(more like a lap lamb), Barklee.
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Reply #2 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 12:53am
 
We got my stuff down to the guest room I was staying in, it was right across the basement from Darryl's room. There was a letter from Darryl, a beautiful rose, and some neopets stuffed animals all waiting for me in the room.
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    I unpacked a little bit, and we went to relax and watch The Princess Bride(one of my favorites movies) in his room. He'd never seen it before and so we had been planning on watching it together while I was visiting. We'd set aside time to watch movies and such right after I got there, that way if I wanted I'd be able to fall asleep and get some rest. I was tired. I really was, but I was also too excited to fall asleep right away. It hadn't really started to sink in that I was finally, actually here with him. I stayed awake through the movie, without me pointing out too much about the book, or at least trying not to. He'd told me he enjoyed it, since he hadn't seen it before. Throughout the rest of my first evening there we watched more tv, had dinner with his parents. It was a really relaxed evening, and it was just nice realizing that it was all actually happening. I was actually watching a movie with him, actually having dinner with his family. I couldn't get over it all really. It was just so nice being able to finally spend time togeter after waiting so long for a chance to.
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We had planned our visit to be around the same time that the fair would be there, that way we'd be able to go together. We had planned to go with some friends of Darryl's, Sheena and Matt, and picked them up on our way to the fair as well as stopping by Wal Mart. Since it would be cold out and all I had was flip flops darryl got me closed toe shoes and picked up a disposable camera as well.. We had planned to spend all afternoon and evening there, then go out for dinner, and come back to the fair for a while. It was raining a bit when we got there, there was a nice rainbow in the sky which I managed to get some pictures of. Once we'd parked and walked up to the fair we got our first actual picture on the disposable. It turned out really well, it's probably my favorite picture of us together.
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While we were there we went on a few rides, a lot were like the rides we have at the fair every year here. I had decided to try one that almost goes upside down, a type of ride I'd always avoided in the past at fairs. It wasn't as bad as I had expected this ride to be, but it was still a bit much for me. Afterwords we wandered around enjoying seeing everything, the rides, the booths, some food. We stopped to see the hypnotist show, and got something to drink while watching that. It was tons of fun to watch, and we both really enjoyed it. We decided to go on the ferris wheel right after sunset, and ended up on it right as the firework show started. It was lovely and the view was amazing, but, being a tropical girl I was absolutely freezing. I was numb by the time we got off so we hurried into one of the show buildings to warm up and look around. While we were there he got me a stuffed animal, a bracelet, a glass chicken(I love chickens), and we had gotten a good amount of pictures. By the time we left it was getting late, and there was frost on the ground. Frost. On the ground. To me that's something you only hear about from relatives, but there it was none the less.
   We went home, and curled up on the couch in front of the fire to watch a movie together and fell asleep that way. Looking back on everything the days we were together seem kind of hard to tell apart. Like any good vacation, I lost track of date and time, surviving only knowing the fact that all was good in my world and everyone seemed to be having a good time.
While I may not be able to tell the days(or nights) apart, it couldn't have gone any better. I had the chance to meet a number of his friends, meet his parents, his older brother. We went to see two movies together, went to an art fair in their town, went out to dinner, went for walks, went swimming at a nearby pool, and did things as simple as drinking tea together and sitting on the porch. I got to see some different places around town, the moon and stars seemed bigger, brighter there than they do here I noticed. I was so relaxed the whole time I was there, I felt completely at home around him and his family, and for the first time I can remember, I wasn't homesick after the first few nights. It was so incredibly easy to get used to spending all my time with him, whereas at home I'm usually by myself.
  We also went to the Forestry Farm while I was there and we walked around the park, looking at animals and getting pictures. We saw leapords, falcons, hawks, deer, all sorts of really beautiful animals. The weather was just perfect that day, sunny and warm.
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Reply #3 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 12:54am
 
Although this was our first visit, we had been very close for years and only want to be closer. Before I left he gave me something very special, a promise ring. He does love me, as he has told me many times, and I him. We will be together, it's something we both want, somethin we're both working for. It's just a matter of time.
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   Everything else seemed to go by so fast. but the time did pass and soon it was down to just the last few days. Saying I didn't want to leave doesn't possibly do the feeling any justice. the night before my last day there we decided to stay up all night then go to see the sunrise. I was tired after a while, so I got a nap on the couch while he stayed up. We left just at sunrise to drive out and find a place to take a few pictures.
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We cuddled up in his car watching the sunrise and listening to music and I just started crying. My last day there and knowing I had a plane ticket for the next morning was completely devastating for me. We made it through the day and stayed up again that night. We spent that night crying to each other before I finally had to get up and do the last of my packing. We had planned to stop at Denny's and have breakfast together before I left. I cried all the way there in the car, and on and off through the meal. I wasn't really in the mood to stomach anything, but he had me order food anyway, just to get something in me. From there we left for the airport, I cried all the way there too but managed to hold everything back while at the counter.Once we got to the check gate I burst into tears, Darryl ran and got some napkins for me from a food place in the airport. I kept crying, I just coudn't stop myself, and finally, I had to go. I walked through the check as they went through my bags again and burst into another round of tears and sobbing while the people working there asked me what was in my bags, did I have any food, and other things I couldn't hear. I sat down at the gate for my plane and waited.
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Reply #4 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 12:55am
 
I sat alone on a bench, and cried, and sobbed, and sniffled while people walked by, stared, and walked on. I've always hated crying in front of people, but I was beyond caring. I took out my cell phone and called him. He hadn't been allowed to wait here at the gate with me, so this was as close as we could get for the moment. It rang and he answered, I could hear his voice, and I cried. He was crying too, in his car, crying while we talked for a few precious last minutes in the same country. I wasn't any better after the call. I sat there as people walked by, hair a mess, red faced, crying sobbing, a napkin over my mouth in an attempt to hide the noise. One lady stopped and asked what was wrong. I babbled like a brook, a mess of words that probably don't exist with "He's staying here and I'm going home" probably being all that was understandable. She just nodded and said she understood, said that if I needed anything at all, to find her. She wasn't a flight attendant, just a lady who cared, and I remember that.
   We finally started boarding. I had cried myself sick and I felt worse than any cold I can remember having. I was torn in two and it hurt. I cried all the way through the first flight back. Sitting in a seat by myself, while everyone probably wondered who the girl going insane was. I got off that plane in tears, and ran to my next gate, sat down, and cried some more. I cried all through the second flight too.
   On my third and final flight home, I ended up next to a girl I recognised from the last flight. I asked if she was visiting or if she lived in my hometown. "Oh, I'm visiting," she says, "I'm here from Canada to visit my boyfriend. It's kind of a long distance thing."
I felt a little better after that, and we talked for that flight back.
As soon as I got home I called him. I'd told him I would, to let him know I was home safely, so we could talk again. I started crying again on the phone.

My bags were still packed, laying out on the floor, on my bed. I felt like by unpacking them, that then the trip really would be over. It took me hours to bring myself to unpack the first piece. Unpack the gifts we'd gotten for everyone while I was there. I was home. Alone in my room. I didn't want to be there. We've already started planning our next visit. He'll be coming here in December to stay for Christmas and New Years, hopefully he won't have to go home. We've put his resume in at a place downtown he's hoping to find a job here at. It's not a long wait till then, but it feels like time is moving slowly. People tell me that'll change. It will pass, but it doesn't so to be yet. If anything, it gets worse. I burst into tears while shopping, while on the way to work, while trying to fall asleep. I miss him. It feels wrong being away now.
I've been searching for ways to pass this time, a job I got with a friend at a mall, stashing money away for later use. I've thrown myself back into my reading, and spending every moment possible talking with Darryl, planning his trip and possibly his move here. I've only just recently been able to bring myself back to my normal online habitats, checking my e-mail, checking here, checking other forums and sites. Which is why I took so long to let ya'll know how it all went.

Anyway, there you have the short version of my story. I've cut it down some so I can post it on the forums for anyone who might be interested in reading it. I only included a couple of pictures, but anyone who wants to see more, feel free to ask.
I've missed you all so much, I'm glad to be back, and sorry I took so long.
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Reply #5 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 1:53am
 
I'm so glad things went well for you.  I'm sure you will find a way to adjust to the long distance relationship.  December really isn't that far away, then you will get so see him again.
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Reply #6 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 2:27am
 
Welcome back, Bardic Love! I was wondering how things went.

Thanks for such a detailed report of what happened. You and Darryl look so cute together! Like BB said, December will be here before you know it and you'll be together again!  Smiley
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Reply #7 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 8:34am
 
I was thinking of you the other day and wondering how it went.
Welcome back  Cheesy Cheesy
Am now going back to your post to read through all this  Smiley
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Reply #8 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 12:34pm
 
Welcome back!  I'm glad your trip was safe and comfy.
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Reply #9 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 9:45pm
 
Welcome back! Cheesy

Like BB, and juri said, in no time at all we'll be reading another post like this one. Smiley

Glad you had such a nice trip.

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Reply #10 - Oct 15th, 2005 at 11:04pm
 
Good to hear you had a wonderful trip and safe travels.  Glad to see you back here at LL too.
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Reply #11 - Oct 16th, 2005 at 2:05am
 
Bardic Love - I loved reading your story!  I'm so glad you guys finally got to meet up.  But in the end, you had me crying too.  Smiley  I'm wishing you two a speedy reunion!  And it's good to have you back online again.

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Reply #12 - Oct 16th, 2005 at 2:33pm
 
Thank you all for the warm welcome back and all the great comments. Hopefully December will sneak up on me. Grin
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Reply #13 - Oct 16th, 2005 at 4:23pm
 
Welcome home, Bardic Love Smiley We missed you around here. I'm glad your trip went well and you are safe. Saying goodbye is the worst part but I'm sure December will come around soon enough.

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Reply #14 - Oct 16th, 2005 at 10:24pm
 
Wow!!  That's really awesome.  I'm glad ya'll had such a wonderful visit.
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