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Reply #180 - Jul 27th, 2008 at 5:09pm
 
I will! Wink
One of my sons likes to cook!
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Reply #181 - Jul 27th, 2008 at 11:54pm
 
Thanks so much for the links, I can't wait to check them out! Cheesy  Umm...except for the fact that the bodies in New Orleans are above ground, I thought all cemetaries were the same. Roll Eyes  I want a dark but frilly type cemetary. I'm not sure how else to explain it.  I like the fog idea.

While driving, we passed a cemetary funeral set up the other day and I thought it was beautiful.  The sky was cloudy and there were what looked like folding chairs but with burgundy velvet covers on them. They were set up under a burgundy tent.  I thought it looked nice but my husband felt that the whole idea was to morbid to be "nice".  Anyway, that's when the idea hit to do a cemetary scene for Halloween.  No chairs though.

I was at Walmart earlier today and saw some cool garden crosses that had the frilly look that I want.  They were wavy...gosh I'm bad at these sort of descriptions.  They were 13.00 ea though and I'd want way too many to be able to aford that.

Yeah, I guess serving miso soup during an Arizona summer is not a good idea. Shocked

You're right, changing how you think is key.  When I was a kid, my mother had episodes when she would "explode".  Often times I never saw it coming or knew when it would happen.  I'd just learned through the years that, that was just who she was.  She was like that with everyone and I just learned not to take it personally.
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Reply #182 - Jul 28th, 2008 at 12:27am
 
Welcome, welcome!!

I think NO has more mosoleums and the graves have a slab on top.  I've been collecting stones for a few seasons, so I have quite a few now.  That's why I did a full graveyard in my backyard last year.  Although if I find an interesting one I still keep buying them.

If you love the crosses, I suggest buying a few this month, then next month and each month until Halloween.  Then get some of the cheap ones I mentioned and you'll have a full yard.  If you got a couple of standing characters you could have a mock burial.


You never know what will set my dad off.  I think that's the worst part of it.  Thing is, he only does it with family.  It is who he is, which I was able to see when I was visiting in June.  I think I did pretty well while I was there.  I'm just left with this unfocused sense of dread and tension-its how I grew up.  The thing is now, my hubby is NOT like my father so I don't have the explosion to justify or resolve the feeling.  I don't know what to feel in its place, and so I get down on myself.
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Reply #183 - Jul 28th, 2008 at 3:51am
 
I'm not sure how the NO cemetary thing works.  I thought that everyone had to be in a mosoleum.

Your idea of collecting a few crosses at a time is a good one.

Then, I thought about just doing one plot in the corner of my yard. (As for the style, Madonna's "Oh Father" video comes to mind) I thought about using  a tombstone that already has a cross on it and perhaps putting an angel statue next to it.  As well as a dead ficus or some other tree, fog and a halloween cat that I saw on the site from your link.

Then, I began to think think that it would probably look too real for my liking as I started thinking of realatives of mine who have died...ugh. Embarrassed  Perhaps, I'll just have to keep Halloween simple like I always do. Tongue

Although, I still might get 2 of the Walmart crosses for decoration anyway.  I might even use them indoors.  I'm not religious by any means, but for some reason I'm drawn to certain religious symbols.  

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You never know what will set my dad off.  I think that's the worst part of it    


Yep, been there.  It's a scary and uncomfortable situation to always have to walk on egg shells out of fear of setting someone off.

I wish you well in getting over or through the negative feelings that you now are placing on yourself.  Although, I know it's easier said than done, however you are a wonderful, kind, smart, talented and beautiful person.  There is no reason for you to ever put yourself down.  Wink
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Reply #184 - Jul 30th, 2008 at 12:01pm
 
La Diosa:First I want to say that I think it is a good thing to remember the dead!  I know it can make you sad.  Being sad's OK.

Second I want to say thanks for your kind words.  Frankly, I forgot those things and got focused on crappy things other people have said to me.  Yeah, why should I believe them instead of myself???

For your graveyard-you could have a few of those crosses and get some burlap and leaves and make grave mounds.  Stick a shovel in the ground nearby and voila, fresh graves.   Oooooh, spooky!  Michael's craft store has cute crows that are pretty big, around $10?  I have a bunch already so don't quote me on the price.  I like to put crows on my tombstones.  I even have some w/red light up eyes!!  Michael's website has a 20% off coupon for regular priced merch. good until 8/2/2008.  Its for your whole purchase, which is more of a discount than they usually offer.  The new Halloween stuff and the birds count!

Hair: I tried an experiment.  After getting really sweaty on Monday I showered, got my hair wet, acv'd and conditioned.  Then I used only my leave-in and towel/air dried as usual.  My hair is super soft and slippery.  Without the gel and moisture lock the curl didn't hold much.  Usually I shower w/o washing my hair.  This is the first time I've gotten it wet and not shampooed.  I'm still trying to wash my hair only on Wed and Sat.  Today I hope to get a deep treatment done.

My workouts are going well, getting in cardio on my off days, too.

Oh yeah, my blood pressure meds have been lowered.  Yay!

Props: The base layer of paint is pretty much done on the reef.  It looks better than I thought it would.  The dead man's fingers coral has proven to be a pretty ambitious first paperclay project.  Typical of me...I got my celluclay.  Next chickenwire and mache project is a mermaid's tail.  The human sized mermaid will be in the bathtub.  I'm really hoping I get a motor so we can make her head move.  It will be my first animated prop.  Cross your fingers I get it done this year!!!  It will still be a good static prop, but I love to put something scary in the bathtub.  It cracks me up!
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Reply #185 - Jul 31st, 2008 at 3:44pm
 
Yeah, I think it's a good thing to remember the dead. However, I'd rather remember their lives and not think so much about the loss of them.

So, I don't think that I'm going to move forward with doing graves...although your idea about the leaves mounds is very creative!  I'll most likely do a happier Halloween scene as opposed to one that reminds me of loss and death.

Hopefully, I'll be able to find some stuff at Michaels and take advantage of that 20% discount!  Thanks for telling me about it, I love that store! Cheesy

And no need for thanks...I was just stating the truth.  I'm glad that my words reminded you of the real truth.  I once heard Bill Cosby say that "hurt people, hurt people".  You know, people who are hurting or just miserable, trying to make others feel as bad as they do. It's their issue, not yours. Wink


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Reply #186 - Jul 31st, 2008 at 8:40pm
 
I agree, to remember those who have passed on at their best.

OK, then.  No graveyard for you.  That makes me think of Seinfeld's Soup Nazzi.  Sorry, I don't mean it to sound that way.  You'll find lots of cute yard signs at Michael's.  Enjoy!  Let me know what you get!!

Your words were very helpful to me.  I've been thinking about that quote all day.  It helps me to think of that, and not take the harmful words to heart.  *whispers, Thanks anyway!*

I did do my deep treatment last night and today my hair is super soft, curly and has lots of volume.  I'm going to have to start keeping it all the way up when I'm teaching...it is becoming a distraction if I wear it 1/2 up at work.  And its sticking to my shoulder blades from the humidity.
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Reply #187 - Aug 1st, 2008 at 3:37pm
 
Quote:
Sorry, I don't mean it to sound that way.

LOL, no worries, I got the joke! Wink

I may be going to Michaels today! Cheesy

I think about that quote pretty often too but at times, not often enough.  Not only does it help you to not take some things personally, but it also sometimes allows you to feel compasion for people despite their harsh words or actions.  *whispers, you're welcome* Smiley

I'm going to start wearing my hair all up too (hopefully).  It's hard for me to do though.  My hair is so thick that I have problems finding hair accessories to hold it all up and buns get boring to me after a while.  I ordered a hairzing to help me out.  The thought of it (the combs and beads) seem a bit scary but I'm desperate enough to give it a try.  Here's a link to the style I'd like to do and how it works.

http://link.brightcove.com/services/player/bcpid232261111

Do you have any styles in mind for when you start wearing your hair up?
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Reply #188 - Aug 5th, 2008 at 12:01am
 
Hubby brought me a present!!!  Its a head cold!  Ugh!

La Diosa:  I have two of those combs.  I haven't done much w/them 'cause they're not really my style.  I'll probably use them for casual days and not for work.

My #1 go to updo right now is a 2 prong hairfork twist.  I make my hair into a bun, insert the fork starting at the bottom, flip the whole thing up and press the fork down inside the twist.

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#2 is a braided bun placed at the crown of my head.

Other than that, I've got to wait for more length to do more braids and such.
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Reply #189 - Aug 5th, 2008 at 2:11am
 
I'm sorry about your cold. Embarrassed  Since I don't go out much, I always wind up getting just about all of my colds from my husband.  Well, for that reason and because I'm certain that he doesn't wash his hands as much as I do. Tongue  Anway, how on earth did your husband even get a cold this time of year?

I have one of those hair forks, but it's' a plastic one and it doesn't hold my hair very well.  My hair always slips out of it but perhaps I'm not using it correctly. Huh

Yeah, I can't do much in the way of braiding with my current length either.  However, we're both lucky to have thick hair.  So when it is long enough, our braids will be nice and thick as well. Wink

I'm happy to know that you have a hairzinger, seeing that I was worried about it being hair friendly and all.  You said that you haven't used them much.  But would from what you know, I suppose you feel that they are okay to use?

I also wanted to ask your advice on fog machines.  About how much of an area would you say they'd cover?  I want to put one out in my yard.  I have no idea what the square footage is, but I'd say it's about average size.


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Reply #190 - Aug 5th, 2008 at 11:47am
 
Someone my hubby works with got sick and we think he got it from her.

Plastic hairtoys don't work in thick hair!  Metal or wood do a great job for me.

I do dream of seeing my braide when its longer.  Lucky us!

My hairzingers were a gift from my mom.  I think they're fine to use once in a while.

The thing about fog machines is that a breeze blows it all away.  If you've got some enclosed space then it should hang around.  There are many different powers of machines.  The more expensive ones will tell you how many sq. feet they cover.  You can use one of any size I think, even the little ones can be pretty nice.  Wal Mart sells them, or you can check a DJ or Halloween site for better answers.  I don't know if that was helpful.  With this cold I can hardly think straight.
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Reply #191 - Aug 5th, 2008 at 12:11pm
 
I hope you feel better soon.  Wink
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Reply #192 - Aug 6th, 2008 at 10:50pm
 
Thanks!  I am a bit better today, after I finally got some sleep.

Wish me luck at work tomorrow.  I hate having coughing fits when my students are in savasana.  Kinda disturbs their relaxation!
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Reply #193 - Aug 7th, 2008 at 8:21am
 
Feel better love!! Wink
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Reply #194 - Aug 8th, 2008 at 10:39pm
 
Thanks, Lisabelle.  I'm better, not quite all the way healthy yet.

Today I got my trim.  She took exactly the littlest bit Smiley
I'm going to continue with her trimming every 12 weeks until it either reaches BSL (I'm very close now) or we can get it evened up without my loosing too much length.  That Ouidad cut really screwed up my hair.  So, if I reach BSL first which is most likely, I'll stay there w/regular trims to get it even and then go back to my curly girl lady.
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