Hi Brunette85,  Have you tried just a touch of oil on the ends.  Works wonders for me.  I put a drop or two on my hand, rub hands together, then work thru ends only.  Because of the thickness of my hair, I section it into small sections to start with.  So beware, a little oil goes a long way depending on your hair type.  I am currently using grapeseed oil.  It seems lighter that evoo.

It is getting much colder where I live too.  Was 37 degrees Sunday, and 48 degrees today, but it dropped back to 39 between 4 - 5pm this afternoon.

Good luck

Deb