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Angel Spun

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Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff
Reply #180 - Mar 20^th, 2008 at 1:58pm

OMG, poor cat!!  

And contrary to what La Diosa said, it most certainly is NOT all "just stuff" in the end. Having lived through several fire threats, I have had to prioritize belongings in terms of what I could bear to part with in an emergency and what I absolutely needed. Certain things cannot be replaced. Ever. So I can completely sympathize with the total devastation they must feel. That's a sucky way to start married life.  

I'll save a prayer for your SIL and her fiancé, Lisabelle. Hope they are able to recover and rebuild as much as possible. 
    As for a silver lining, they will at least have a story to tell in years to come, and I'll bet they make something really wonderful out of nothing. 

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Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff
Reply #181 - Mar 20^th, 2008 at 2:47pm

Wow, I didn't mean to come off as unsympathetic. Shocked

I believe what happened to them is absolutely horrible.

I just feel that regardless of how much you love your "stuff", pets or even people for that matter, if a tradgedy happens and you lose something or someone that is important to you, life still goes on. That's the beauty of life. It's fine (and most likely necessary) to mourn your losses, but in the end it's necessary move ahead with life. Yeah, some things can't be replaced. However, how can anyone ever be happy if we're continually sad over all that we've lost? In this life nothing is forever.

I've lost my mother, grandmother, and grandfather all of whom I was extremely close to, but in the end, life goes on.

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Sakina Stardust Offline August 2O1O @ the Louvre Posts: 3399 Arizona Gender:	Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff Reply #182 - Mar 20^th, 2008 at 5:44pm Poor kitty. How terrible. I'm glad they weren't hurt. They're really lucky to have you, Lisabelle.
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Lisabelle Stardust Offline Kami wa onna no inochi - A womens hair is her life Posts: 2797 Southern Ontario, Canada Gender:	Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff Reply #183 - Mar 22^nd, 2008 at 11:06am Thanks ladies Been a hard few days getting everything oranized. A and B are doing fine and will be going to live with his family for awhile. I've just been phsicaly and mentally exsaused..... This weekend is Easter dinner, I think I'll sleep through it..
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Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff
Reply #184 - Mar 22^nd, 2008 at 11:27pm

I've lived through a housefire in which everything was lost, including my two cats and one of our dogs (and her seven puppies, who were only a week old(and were born on my birthday))... So my prayers are definately with your SIL and her fiance Sad

If you get a chance, give them a hug for me.

It's definately not 'just stuff'. Indeed life goes on, but... you still miss what you had... and at least for me, I'll never stop regretting the fact that I can't pass on my baby blanket and stuffed tiger to my future children (if I have any)... Maybe it was the fact that we were away at my great-grandmother's funeral, and got stuck in a snowstorm (and almost killed) on the way back, only to find our house and everything we had completely destroyed, but... Some things just scar you for life.

I hope your foot is feeling better, Lisabelle :/

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Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff
Reply #185 - Mar 23^rd, 2008 at 7:13am

Dear Hair Diary,

Well I've wahsed amd plopped my hair, man it needed it Tongue

My other sister-in-law's cat died, she had cancer. I swear this is the year all the family pets got there ticket. Cry

I need to cut my nails, there like talons, I poked my left eye the other morning and cut the skin on the lid. Embarrassed

Sorry I'm so down, just things have sucked lately. I made a friend on a on-line game and even he pissed me off.

Note to self: Do not play on-line games with morons.

Anyway I hope you all have a good Easter.

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Sakina Stardust Offline August 2O1O @ the Louvre Posts: 3399 Arizona Gender:	Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff Reply #186 - Mar 23^rd, 2008 at 1:01pm Aww, come here, Lisabelle (((((hugs))))) Spring is here and something good will happen to you today!
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Angel Spun Ex Member	Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff Reply #187 - Mar 23^rd, 2008 at 1:07pm Aww ((((((((Lisabelle))))))))))
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Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff
Reply #188 - Mar 23^rd, 2008 at 3:37pm

I'm sorry about all the things you've gone through lately, Lisabelle. I'm sure things will look up again soon. (((Hugs)))

I guess I ruffled a few feathers with my "it's only stuff" comment. I'm sorry I said it. Whatever stance we take in regards to it (stuff), it's all a matter of personal opinion, and how we personally, choose to look at things. Wink

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Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff
Reply #189 - Mar 24^th, 2008 at 9:38am

Thanks ladies!

La diosa, don't worry about it sweetie. Wink

Ahh... we did Easter dinner yesterday. My neice stressed me out and punched me in my eye..... So now I have a shiner. My SIL was like she hit you then hit her back she has to learn. So I hit her back, not hard or in the face. Well little M cried for 20 minutes. I was freaked, but her mother said she has to learn. Needless to say I wanted to go home!

Today I'm going to de-stess and relax

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Godyssey Stardust Offline Posts: 2375 Georgia Gender:	Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff Reply #190 - Mar 24^th, 2008 at 2:27pm OMG!!!, now you have a black eye!?! Poor thing! You really do need to de-stress, relax and take it easy. (((more hugs)))
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Angel Spun Ex Member	Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff Reply #191 - Mar 24^th, 2008 at 5:56pm Even more messed up is that she didn't discipline her own child herself! WTF?! That's not your job, Lisabelle. Perhaps you should spend time/holidays away from your husband's family until they can all learn to behave.
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Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff
Reply #192 - Mar 25^th, 2008 at 11:03am

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Even more messed up is that she didn't discipline her own child herself! WTF?! 

That's not your job, Lisabelle. 
Perhaps you should spend time/holidays away from your husband's family until they can all learn to behave.  

I know, this kid has no disicpline, she is as nurotic as her freaky mother! Angry

As for staying away till they learn to behave, that would be never. His mother is a jeoulous cow! We have the brats birthday party next week then we have to babysit the week after. Someone please shoot me! Sad

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Lisabelle Stardust Offline Kami wa onna no inochi - A womens hair is her life Posts: 2797 Southern Ontario, Canada Gender:	Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff Reply #193 - Mar 26^th, 2008 at 10:32am Dear Hair Diary, Today is wash day. I've been dpong the curly thing and I like it. lastnight I did a S&D and was happy to find less splitends! My eye looks like I've been in a prize fight with Holifield. Talk about fights, had a fight with the husband lastnight. &^%$, I cannot stand him.... Anyway I'm off!
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Sakina Stardust Offline August 2O1O @ the Louvre Posts: 3399 Arizona Gender:	Re: Lisabelle's Hair and Stuff Reply #194 - Mar 26^th, 2008 at 6:36pm Sorry, Lisabelle. (((hugs)))
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